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International adoption is a wonderful way of expanding your family and
providing a caring, loving home to a child in need. Many U.S.
Citizens have turned to international adoption in the past few decades –
U.S. Citizens
adopted 22,728 children through international adoption in 2005.
General Steps in
International Adoption
There are
several steps prospective adoptive parents can take to be better prepared for the adoption
process.
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Understand the Process
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Agency or Attorney?
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Selecting an Agency
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Research
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Be patient
1.
Understand the Process
Intercountry adoption may be a viable option for many families. However, the process can be complex, paperwork-intensive, and expensive.
Like domestic adoptions, costs and waiting time vary significantly
depending on the country and child chosen. Costs can range from a low of
$12,000 to a high of $30,000, although most intercountry adoptions
average between $15,000 and $25,000. The waiting time for intercountry
adoption, including the home study and U.S. Citizenship and
Immigration Services (USCIS – formerly INS) approval process, can take
from one to three years. Adoptions of children with special needs may
have lower fees and shorter waiting periods.
You can
complete an intercountry adoption on your own or with the assistance of
an adoption attorney or an adoption agency. Whichever route you choose,
you will need to have a homestudy performed. A homestudy is when a
homestudy provider (usually a licensed social worker) interviews the
prospective adoptive parent(s) at their residence. You can use a
separate homestudy agency or an individual licensed social worker in
your state, depending on your state’s requirements. You may be able to
use your placement agency if they provide this service and are located
close to your residence. If not, they may be able to recommend a
homestudy provider close to you.
There are
several resources you may want to consult during this “information
gathering” time.
Consult adoptive parent support groups in your area and read literature
on intercountry adoption. Here are a few websites links to get you
started.
2.
Agency or Attorney?
Agency
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If you
choose to work with an agency you will need to find an experienced
reputable adoption agency with intercountry programs. All JCICS member
agencies are non-profit (501(c)3), licensed in the state(s) where they
operate, and subscribe to our Standards
of Practice. However, whether you choose to work with a JCICS
member agency or another agency, we recommend the following procedures:
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Contact several agencies.
You may prefer to work with a larger agency that has many different
programs and is well known, or you may choose a smaller agency to receive
one-on-one attention. You may already have a specific
country in mind so that may narrow your scope
as well. Attend information sessions hosted by agencies you are
interested in, ask questions, and read the information they provide.
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Talk to other adoptive
parents. Contact an Adoptive Parent Support Group in your area – find
out what their experiences have been and learn from people who have
gone through the process while realizing that every case is
different.
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Investigate. Contact the
State Licensing Specialist in the state where the agency operates
and ask if the agency’s license is current and if there have been any
major complaints lodged against them. Also call the
Better Business Bureau to see if
there have been any major complaints lodged against the agency as
well.
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Once you decide on an
agency, read all the material you receive. Although it may seem like
a lot of paperwork, it is important to understand what you
are signing. Please be aware that many times the fees are
non-refundable so ask for a fee sheet upfront and read the fine print.
Attorney –
If you are
interested in using an attorney, you may want to consult the
American
Academy of Adoption Attorneys.
Many times prospective adoptive parent(s) will contract an attorney
because they have already identified a specific child to adopt or they
are comfortable with the process but would like some assistance
navigating the legal nuances of intercountry adoption. As with an
agency, make sure to research several attorneys, ask questions, contact
references and make an educated decision.
3. Selecting an Agency
JCICS was created so that there could be a
distinct and comprehensive set of standards for practice for
international adoption agencies. Each of our agencies signs the JCICS
Standards of Practice (available at
www.jcics.org/Standards.htm)
and agrees to abide by them.
Any Agency listed in our Membership
Directory is an agency in good standing with JCICS and has not been
found guilty of violating our Standards of Practice. While we do
have a complaint and review process if ever a family contacts us
with concerns about unethical
practices by one of these agencies, we would never be able to guarantee
that any agency listed in our membership is going to be the right fit
for your family. For this reason, it is always necessary to do as much
research as you can so that you feel comfortable with the agency you
choose.
As you start looking into specific agencies, here are some guidelines
for selecting one to work with:
1) Contact the Better Business Bureau
in the agency’s region; ask if there have ever been any reports filed
against their area.
2) Contact the agency's state
licensing office and make sure that their license is current (a list of
who to call in each state can be found at The National Adoption
Information Clearinghouse Website at
http://www.childwelfare.gov/nad/index.cfm)
3) Ask any agency you consider working
with if you could obtain a list of families who have adopted through
them. These families are a wonderful resource to use for
discussing their experience with the agency. (However, please
remember that most agencies would not knowingly give you contact
information for any family who had a negative experience.)
4) Every agency should be upfront with
you about each aspect of the adoption process. Before you commit to one
agency, ask for the following information:
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A list of fees and fee
schedule (although there are almost always un-planned-for
expenses, there are many standard fees which they should be able to
explain or estimate for you). See below to download the JCICS
Cost Comparison Worksheet which will help you to keep track of
potential expenses that might occur with each agency.
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All contracts that will
be signed between your family and the agency. Review these
contracts carefully and consider the commitments (both financial and
otherwise) outlined for both your family and the agency.
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The agency’s refund
policy. This will is critical information for you to have in
case anything change in the course of the adoption. Remember
that in addition to changes in circumstance for your family, there are
instances where changes in country policies could impact your
adoption.
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A list of services that
the agency will provide (including homestudies and post-placement
services . If the agency you have selected is not in your state,
you will need to find someone near you who can conduct your
homestudies and assist you in completing post-placement reports.
It is also important to ask the agency if they will provide
translation, courier or notary services. If you will be
responsible for obtaining these services yourself, ask if they can
recommend providers.
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Information on the
country you are interested in adopting from. Including
details on the agency's contacts abroad. If you will be
traveling to the country to complete your adoption, you will want to
know who you will be working with you once you arrive in-country.
The agency should be upfront with you in regards to the current status
of adoptions from each country which you are considering. This
information is also available on the
JCICS Country Information website.
JCICS strongly advises that
parents obtain as much information as possible about the costs of
adoption from any agency with which they are considering working. In
order to assist parents in anticipating some of these costs, JCICS has
created a Cost Comparison Worksheet
(Excel file) for Parents. As you
explore agencies and country programs, use this worksheet as a guide for
determining the possible costs of your adoption.
Parents should be aware that
the worksheet does not necessarily include all of the costs that an
international adoption may incur. It is also important to recognize
that costs will vary from agency to agency and that there may also be
distinct differences in expense depending on the country from which the
family would like to adopt. You are encouraged to explore multiple
agencies and consider alternate countries as you fill out the worksheet
and consider the cost of your adoption.
4.
Research
If you
haven’t already, you will need to start thinking about the various
countries you are interested in and where you would like to pursue an
adoption. You may have already decided on a country and chose an agency
that has a strong program there, or you may be open to a number of
options. Talk with your agency or attorney to understand the
differences in adopting from various regions. Educate yourself on the
culture, possible reasons for children to be institutionalized, and the
medical concerns of that region. You may need to do some
“soul-searching” to decide how you feel about becoming an interracial
family, adopting a special needs child, or adopting a sibling group. In
the end, this reflective time will help you manage your expectations of
the adoption and welcome a child into your home.
5.
Be patient
The
inter-country adoption process includes many variables, therefore it is
impossible to predict an exact timeframe for when you will receive your
child. Sometimes, the foreign country may experience political
unrest or change the laws governing adoption which would cause a delay
in your process. For ideas on how to make the wait for your child
easier to bear, consult Coping and Difficulties
and Delays As You Wait for Your Child.
Please
consult our Frequently Asked Questions
for more information on the adoption process.
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