JCICS joins the millions of people around the world expressing our
condolences and well wishes towards the thousands who
have experienced devastation from the recent natural disaster in several
Southeast Asian and Eastern African countries. Many people hear of natural disasters in various parts
of the world, and want to open their homes and hearts, via adoption,
to children who have lived through them. While these well intentions
are commendable, it is rarely
possible or advisable, at least in the short term. The reasons are simple:
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In the immediate aftermath of a disaster, it is often difficult
to ascertain that a child is truly an orphan. Parents may have
become separated from their children in the confusion and may be in
another refugee camp or just over the border. It is not ethical to
place a child for adoption unless it is clear that no parent able to
care for that child will be found. The U.S. Citizenship and
Immigration Services will not grant an orphan visa to a child
unless he/she clearly meets the definition of an eligible orphan;
eligible orphan status cannot be considered if there is a
possibility that a parent could provide care at the country's normal
standard of acceptability and did not purposely abandon or
relinquish the child.
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Even if it is clear that a child has no parent able to care for
him/her, good adoption practice requires that attempts be made to
place the child with extended family, members of the community, or
others in his/her birth country. Intercountry adoption is appropriate only if a child is
unlikely to find a permanent, loving family in his/her birth
country. A search for a domestic family may take many months in the
aftermath of a disaster. In addition, children may need to be
treated for post-traumatic stress disorder and international
adoption may not be in their best interest at this time.
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Ethical adoption practice requires that a child be considered
legally relinquished or abandoned, and then legally adopted
according to the laws of his/her country of citizenship. In the
immediate aftermath of a disaster, a country's government may be in
disarray and what resources are available may be deployed on
projects such as providing safe water and food, caring for the
injured, burying the dead, maintaining order, etc. Thus, the
courts and other entities that could handle relinquishments and
adoptions may not be functioning at all, or may be giving first
priority to projects in other areas. Adoption cannot proceed in such
an environment.
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In the immediate aftermath of natural or man-made
disasters, an area may not be safe for travel. Occasionally, U.S. government officials who review the
legitimacy of adoptions and process exit visas are unable to work
safely in a country. Moreover, even if staff and families might be
willing to travel, civilian air and ground transport to and within
an area might be unavailable.
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Even if a country manages to get its legal system functioning
and to identify parentless children, it may not permit adoption, by
law or custom. This is particularly true in countries that live by
Shaaria, Islamic law, which does not recognize adoption.
For more information on adopting children in the
following countries who may already be readily available for
adoption, please click on the link below:
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India
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Thailand
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Indonesia - The prospective adoptive couple
must be residents of Indonesia for a minimum of 2 years.
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Sri Lanka - Prospective adoptive parents should make
arrangements to stay in Sri Lanka for at least 4 to 5 weeks for the
court action to be finalized. Sri Lankan law does not permit a
single parent to adopt a child.
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Malaysia - Adoptions are not common; prospective adoptive
parents may be required to remain in Malaysia for two or more years
during the process; non-Muslims may not adopt Muslim children.
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Bangladesh - Adoption of children is not permitted under
Bangladesh law, however, Bangladesh citizens are permitted to apply
for guardianship of children.
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Kenya
If you have a strong desire to parent a child, Joint Council also
suggests that you consider adoption of one of the many children around
the world who can be adopted. There are millions of
children around the world who need permanent loving families and can be adopted and
brought to the U.S. in a legal, ethical way.
Contribute
To Disaster Relief Efforts
Joint Council recommends that families wishing to aid the children of
areas affected by this disaster provide other forms of assistance, via reputable relief
organizations, at this time. Visit
http://www.interaction.org/,
the largest alliance of U.S.-based international developmental and
humanitarian nongovernmental organizations, to learn what
organizations are operating relief programs. Another listing of
relief programs can be found at
http://www.usafreedomcorps.gov/. The following are efforts
recommended or sponsored by JCICS member organizations:
Bangalore Orphanage Disaster
Relief Fund
(Children of the Nations International Adoptions, Inc.)
Project Description: This orphanage in Bangalore, India is home to
over 100 children – a number that has been growing since the
disaster. The Indian government specifically requested that this
orphanage help to take in many of the children who have been left
homeless. This has caused a great amount of strain on the orphanage
and staff members, as resources were already limited for the children
living there. There is no electricity or running water and none of
the children have shoes or sufficient clothing. Children of the
Nations has been supporting this orphanage and sending donations for
six years, but will need extra assistance in order to provide for so
many children left without families or homes after the tsunami.
Money, for medicine, food and clothing is desperately needed.
Website:
www.childrenofthenations.org
Donations can be made to:
Children of the Nations International Adoptions, Inc.
Bangalore Orphanage Disaster Relief Fund
P.O. Box 1735
New Port Richey, Florida 34656
toll free 877-752-4453
Orphan Aid in
Sri Lanka
(Faith International Adoptions)
Project
Description: A team of local doctors will travel to orphanages in Sri
Lanka to offer medical care and support for the many children that are
pouring into orphanages. They will also be installing water
purification systems due to the prediction that waterborne diseases
may claim many more lives in the coming weeks. The team plans to
travel to Sri Lanka in the third week of January and work with
orphanages in and around Colombo, Sri Lanka. Faith International
Adoptions is collecting monetary donations that will go towards
purchasing antibiotics, medical supplies, water, water purification
systems, formula, food, clothing, housing, etc. to be distributed by
the medical team.
For updates on Faith
International’s work with this crisis, please see
www.faithadopt.org/home/tsunami.
Some funds will go specifically towards the Lotus Buds Children’s Home
(an orphanage in Colombo) which is in dire need of assistance to
support the increasing number of children coming into the home.
Therese Koelmeyer, a Faith friend of many years and the orphanage
director, has asked for help in raising money. For more information
on Therese's work, please see the Lotus Buds orphanage website (http://www.lotusbuds.com/)
founded and directed by Therese and her husband. Right now they are
caring for dozens of children coming under their care daily.
Donations can be made to:
Faith International Adoptions
535 East Dock Street, Suite 103
Tacoma, WA 98402
faith@faithadopt.org
(253) 383-1928
*All donations are tax-deductible and %100 will go directly towards
orphanages or much-needed items for the children. Faith International
will cover all administrative costs.
Medical Assistance to Banda Aceh
(American
Friends Service Committee)
Project
Description: American Friends Service Committee is on the ground in
Indonesia getting doctors and staff to Banda Aceh right now. This
organization attempts to work with groups that are traditionally left
behind by larger
aid
organizations. A link for donations and description of current
projects are on their website.
Website:
www.afsc.org
Donations can be made to:
AFSC Development
1501 Cherry St.
Philadelphia, PA 19102
(Mark envelope with AFSC/Crisis Fund)
Donations using Visa, MasterCard or American Express can be made
through the website or by calling 1-888-588-2372
Tsunami Victims Assistance
(Adopt International)
Project Description: Adopt International is
collecting funds from families to send to assist victims. They are
asking for donations from adoptive families and any interested in helping
with financial aid.
Website:
www.adoptinter.org
Donations can be made to:
Adopt International
1000 Brannan, Suite 301
San Francisco, CA 94103
adopt@adoptinter.org
(415)934-0300
Chennai, India Orphanage Assistance
(Children of the World)
Project Description: The orphanage in
Chennai, India
is seven miles from the devastation. Money is being sent directly to
the orphanage to be used for the children. A group of 14 missioners
will be traveling to Chennai on February 4th to install two water
purifications systems. Monetary donations for the orphanage are
greatly appreciated.
Website:
www.childrenoftheworld.com
Donations can be made to:
Children of the World
811-A Fairhope Avenue
Fairhope, AL 36532
(251)990-3550
World Concern
(New Hope Child and Family Agency/CRISTA Ministries)
Poject Description: New Hope Child and Family
Agency is a part of CRISTA Ministries. CRISTA also has an overseas
relief and development agency, World Concern. World
Concern has had a longstanding presence in Thailand and Sri Lanka
which
facilitates their work in those areas. To learn more of the
specifics about what World Concern is doing to assist tsunami victims
see their website
www.worldconcern.org. It
is being updated as the work continues.
Website:
www.worldconcern.org
Donations can be made to:
World Concern
19303 Fremont Ave N
Seattle WA, 98133
(make checks out to "World Concern Tsunami Relief Fund")
1-800-755-5022
info@worldconcern.org
*Donations can also be made with credit card through the World Concern
website
Christ Faith Home - Assistance to Children and
Families
(MAPS International)
Project Description: MAPS International is partnering with
Christ Faith Home (www.christfaithhome.org)
in Chennai to provide immediate and long-term assistance for children
and families that were affected by the tsunami. Within days of
the tsunami, MAPS was relieved to hear that the orphanage was spared
and the children and staff were safe and unharmed. Christ Faith Home
went to work immediately to provide humanitarian relief to their
suffering neighbors in greatest need. To focus their efforts, they
have adopted a local village where over 400 families have lost
everything and many family members.
To assist in the relief efforts, MAPS is requesting financial
donations which will be used to help the villagers with their
immediate needs for survival – food, clothing, household goods, etc.
The funds will also be used to help maintain and broaden the services
available at Christ Faith Home for the children of the tsunami, who
are arriving daily. As the effects of this devastation unfold, it is
expected that there will be a dramatic rise in the number of orphaned
children in need of shelter, food, counseling and support as a result
of their tremendous losses. MAPS and Christ Faith Home have put
together a proposal to increase the current capacity to provide these
much-needed services. MAPS representatives will be visiting the area
on January 12th to meet with Maida Raja and determine future
developments. (Donations can be made via the website or check
made payable to MAPS, specify "Tsunami Relief Fund" in the
description.)
Website:
www.mapsadopt.org/tsunami.html
Donations can be made to:
MAPS International
PO Box 772
Houlton, ME 04730
(207) 775-4101
info@mapsadopt.org